Affirmations to get out of a victim mentality.

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Life is not fair, but I will always fair well. 

Things that can be viewed as a disadvantage I view as an advantage. 



Life may not always be good to me, but I am good to me. 


Things happen for me to learn. 


I don’t despise the learning or look down on the work. 



Life does not just happen to me. 


I’m making this life what I want it to be. 


I’m responsible for shaping my life. 


I’m intentional about shaping my life. 


I make my life grand.


I make my life meaningful. 



So it is. 


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