You So Darn Vibey 💛

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The stage you're in NOW is optimal for your season. YES. This stage. The NOW with all the mess, all the mishaps, all the shouldas, and all the shouldn'tas.

What if it will all make sense with a retrospective view?

Fly butterfly 🍃. Don't be SO caught up in the DETAIL details because the vibey-est you-moments are carefree 💛. The vibey-est you-moments are free from perfection 💛. The vibey-est you-moments smell of fresh dirt and sunsets 💛. 

It may be tempting to romanticize about the NOW when time ushers you into the THEN. Because in the THEN you'll have your own set of obstacles for THAT part of life. BY GOLLY HOPEFULLY though, in that moment, you can focus on THE ACTUAL MOMENT. 

Smell it. Taste it. Revel in it. Thank God for it.

We are constantly changing and we should be constantly challenging ourselves to become better versions of ourselves. But darnet step light. Some seasons REQUIRE THAT ONLY. 

No need to stomp for fear that folks won't know you're walking. No reason to yell for fear that folks won't know you're coming. 

In time ⌛, just as the constant trickle of water upon the rock, you will make your, I will make my, WE will make our mark. Steady. Smooth. Vibey.

Authentically you. 

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